Campus Wi-lan had some problem for the last two days..Haizz..
Can't online for two days.....Stress...Stresss..... Stress...Cant blog for two days..
Somehow I think I am addicted to blogging.
What if friend? Some how I can't determine the proper explanation for "friend". Is it someone that you have fun with? Is it some one that will treat you as their leader by following what you do? Is it someone that give you straight forward advise without bothering what is in your mind? Or is it someone that will lend a helping hand when you get into trouble?
This incident happened to me two days ago. I think is the rainy season here so it rains quite often. So, that particular evening I went to a nearby cafe and have my meal alone because all of my friends were having their class. Suddenly, it started to rain. So, I thought I stay in the cafe and enjoy my meal slowly and wait for the rain to stop or perhaps lessen. So that I'm able to walk back to my hostel. I even order an additional fries and nugget to pass my time. I think it about 8.30pm when the rain started. I waited for about an hour and the rain was still continue raining cats and dogs. I then decided to phone my so call friend that I knew for about a month since my class commence. I feel that I actually knew her very well because we study the same course, we do our experiment together and almost had all of our meal together.
Here is the conversation,(the conversation is actually in cantonese)
Roy : hello, is this S (lets assume that S is her name)
S : yes, whats up roy?
Roy : Err...can i ask for a favour? Its raining and I am currently at the cafe without bringing my umbrella.
S : Err...I bought one umbrella only . ( S is about a block from the cafe)
Roy: Can you come and fetch me with your umbrella?
S : Why you go there wo?
We continue our conversation for about a minute that I sense that S is reluctant to help me. I just thank here and told her I will find a way back to the hostel myself.
After that another friend of mine called me and ask where am I. I told him the situation and he scolded me for not bringing my own umbrella. He then put down the phone. I was so depress that time. After a few second my phone rang again. It was him. He ask me where I put my umbrella. I figure that he was actually in my room searching for the umbrella cause he don't have any umbrella himself. I was so glad at the moment. He took the umbrella and came to me just in a short moment.
After the incident, I feel that we should pick our own friends and treat them as equal as they treat us. Sometimes i do think male friends are much more reliable. I am so disappointed at her. She did not bother to help when I ask for her favour while on the other hand someone offer to help me when I did not even need to say a word Haizzz...
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